Some signs of a cheating wife are quite obvious, if you’ll allow yourself to see them. If you happen to see receipts in the trash for condoms or lingerie, or perhaps see the actual items, but they are never used during the times you are intimate with your wife, that’s a pretty strong sign that she’s got something going on.

One of the more common signs of a cheating wife is when she suddenly starts being very secretive. If she engages in hushed phone calls or tries to only converse on the phone in private, or if you notice she spends a lot of time online but the browsing history on your computer has been erased, there is cause to be suspicious. There is of course the possibility that she’s trying to plan a surprise party for you or something like that, so don’t jump to conclusions too quickly. It is also possible that she’s satisfying some fantasy online that she would never explore in the real world, but such behavior still suggests some dissatisfaction with your relationship.

Changes in sexual behavior can also be signs of a cheating wife. Decreased desire for sex could be due to any number of factors, including stress or fatigue, but if your wife suddenly starts avoiding having sex, it is a cause for concern. Some women who are cheating will actually seek out sex with their spouses more often. This might be out of guilt or as a deliberate ploy to keep the husband from suspecting her extracurricular activities. Increased sex drive can also result from other things like hormonal changes, so it is best not to take that in itself as a sign of infidelity.

Besides the amount of sexual interest, there may be changes in how she behaves during sexual intimacy. She might kiss differently or perhaps want to engage in sexual acts or sexual positions that she has never done before. While this may simply be due to an idea she got from a magazine article or friend, a new interest in a sexual position or act could be a sign that a new partner has given her new ideas.

Finally, a common sign of a cheating wife is when she is spending most of her free time with someone other than you. In some cases, this maybe with a female friend, so it may not seem suspicious at first. If your wife is cheating on you, the female friend may be acting as her alibi so your wife can easily slip out to be with her lover, but there is also the possibility that the friend IS the lover. It is not unusual for a man to see the signs of a cheating wife and then dismiss them because he’s been able to determine that the wife is spending her time with a female friend, never suspecting that his wife is cheating on him with a woman and not a man.

When you suspect that your wife may be cheating on you, it is a good idea to try to stay as calm as possible and carefully take the necessary steps to first find out exactly what’s going on, and then to figure out what you want to do about it if your wife is cheating on you. The emotions that come up can cause you to rush into actions you might later regret. That’s why you need to do your best to stay calm and first obtain foolproof evidence that she is actually cheating.

Several ways exist to gather evidence, and many of these methods you can learn how to do yourself through online resources. It should be pointed out though that some of the resources available may not be the best choices, as you are not a professional, and it is very important to be able to collect evidence in a simple way so you don’t get caught. After all, if she happens to be innocent but catches you playing private investigator, she might be offended to the point that your relationship could be destroyed. And then, you will be the “crazy, jealous, nut-job” who didn’t trust her, which will not only ruin your relationship with her, but also with the mutual friends you had. You want to be very careful about how you collect evidence and in what methods you choose to use.

Only once you are absolutely sure that she is cheating should you confront her. If you do catch her cheating, you also need to decide what you want to do – try to work out your relationship or end it. Above all, you need to keep your anger under control – getting violent or destructive may seem like a good idea at the time, but the legal problems that can result from you acting on impulse can do far more harm to your life than her affair did.

By carefully gathering evidence, you can determine if the signs of a cheating wife that you have noticed are actually indicators that she is cheating or whether there is another possible explanation. If you do find proof that your wife has been unfaithful, then you can take the time to figure out your next step.

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